Boudoir photography has been around since the invention of the camera, and shows no signs of slowing down. Mainstream magazines are saturated with scantily clad celebrities draped across the pages, buffed and coiffed to perfection, with Cosmo-cleavage, and cellulite-free derrieres. Let’s face it, what woman doesn’t want to look like that—especially for the man she’s about to marry?
Enter the growing trend of bridal boudoir photography. More and more daring brides-to-be are taking the plunge and getting professional, pin-up-style photos of themselves as a special gift for their fiancé or husband. As Angela Klein of Sugar and Spice Photography in Rockford, Minn. notes, “Brides are looking for a gift for the groom on their wedding night that he’ll go crazy for and never expect!”
What is boudoir photography?
Modern boudoir photography is best described as upscale, magazine-style images with a sensuous, seductive tone. As the name implies, they’re usually shot in a bedroom setting or studio decorated in boudoir style. Bridal boudoir photography, in particular, has recently exploded in popularity and is becoming widely accepted thanks to its tasteful approach.
How do I choose a photographer?
Since boudoir photography is so personal, referrals are a good way to find a photographer. If you’re already planning a wedding, chances are your photographer may also offer these services. If you find someone whose work you love, set up a consultation over the phone or in person to see if your personalities click. Most brides prefer working with female photographers, so make sure you know who will be shooting you. While it’ll probably feel awkward prancing around in lingerie for the first few minutes, a good photographer should make you feel comfortable and confident. Photogen Inc. client Emily K. of St. Paul shares her experience: “I was concerned with not feeling as sexy or beautiful as other women, but [photographer] Eliesa Johnson found a way to make me feel like the most beautiful creature she’s ever photographed. It turned into a celebration rather than a comparison.”
When do I schedule a boudoir photography session?
It’s best to book your session a couple months ahead of time, and consider doing the shoot close to your actual wedding day. It gives you time to get in your best shape (and show it off); it’s also easier to keep it a secret if you plan to surprise your fiancé.
How much does boudoir photography cost?
Pricing varies considerably. A session can range from $300 to $1,000 and depends largely on the photographer, session, styling, and photo retouching. Having your images touched up is an essential part of achieving that flawless, cover-model look, so it pays to ask if it’s included. The finished presentation of your photos is usually a separate cost, with a variety of options including prints, calendars, magazines, mini-books, or a computer disc that allows you to create your own sexy slideshow.
How long does it take?
Shoots can last anywhere from one to six hours, including hair and makeup styling, the number of changes you have, and lighting adjustments. For a shorter session, you can expect at least 50 to 100 photos to be taken.
What do I wear to a boudoir session?
There’s no need to spend hundreds of dollars on new lingerie. “Some of my favorite shoots have involved a man’s button-down shirt or a simple knit blanket properly draped,” says Laura Ivanova of Laura Ivanova Photography in Minneapolis. Certain studios will offer closets filled with costumes, shoes, and jewelry. Feel free to get creative, such as dressing in his favorite football jersey, or go for a theme like old Hollywood, vintage pinup, or ’80s rocker chick. Of course, flattering clothes are key. If you’re concerned about your midsection, try a corset or a baby-doll slip; not every look has to be a push-up bra and panties. In any case, every woman has a unique shape and style, so bring items you love. Above all, don’t forget your wedding-night lingerie and engagement ring!
Will I be styled for my shoot?
Photographers who work exclusively in boudoir will often include styling in the cost or as an a la carte option. In this case, you can expect to have your hair and makeup professionally done the day of the shoot, including application of extensions, false lashes, and camera-ready cosmetics. Being pampered is one of the most enjoyable parts of the shoot; it’s also a fun way to bond with your photographer. Angela Klein and Cyndi Jenney of Sugar and Spice Photography shot boudoir photos for bride Colleen L., who says, “The three of us did all the things that girls do: talked about shoes, makeup, kids, and diets. I almost forgot that they were going to see me in my underwear.”
Where do I get them taken?
Practically anywhere. “In your bedroom, in a studio, in a lake, in a car, behind a tree, in a tree, in the moonlight, in the sand, in a swanky hotel—you get the idea. The world is your canvas!” declares Jennifer Wheeler of Mound-based Serendipity Photography. If you book a hotel room, consider taking advantage of the added expense. It can double as a sleepover site after a girl’s night out, a bachelorette party room, or a special overnight getaway with your sweetie.
Can I bring someone with me?
Many photographers encourage clients to bring a trusted friend to help ease any awkwardness. “It was great to have somebody there who I knew would be honest with me the way only a best friend can be, plus we had some fun bonding time,” says Sarah M. of Minneapolis, who had her maid-of-honor in tow. If you’re worried about onlookers, dressing and styling is often isolated to one area, and the shoot remains private in another. Lastly, a glass of bubbly or wine on the day of the session can help calm any pre-shoot jitters.
After the shoot, many brides leave with a new outlook. According to bride-to-be, Jensina P. of Mankato, the shoot was as special for her as it was for her husband. “I left totally empowered. I felt like a strong, sexy woman and, trust me, I don’t feel like a sexy diva woman often. This was a fantastic gift!”
Top Three Myths Debunked
- I have to pose nude Not unless you want to. The goal is tasteful sensuality; this can mean shooting women in lingerie or nude without exposing private areas (think arms crossed over your chest or a shot from the back). While we’re sure your man loves you au naturel, leaving a little to his imagination can be more provocative. Minneapolis bride Sarah M. agrees, “My favorite images from the shoot focused on beauty, not booty.”
- I need to be a size 2 No woman has a perfect body. “Most everyone you see on our site is just your average woman with the same issues we all deal with,” says Angela Klein of Sugar and Spice Photography. In fact, if you think all the women on boudoir photographers’ websites look like models, it means the photographers are doing their job right. They’re trained to highlight your best features and hide what you want hidden.
- My photos will end up on the Internet Since most photographers grow their business through referrals, confidentiality is essential, as they build their reputation on it. Images are only posted on a photographer’s website with the model’s permission. That said, we recommend doing your homework and ask to speak with past clients, read the privacy policy, and inquire about a confidentiality agreement.
